In My Backyard - I used to help my mom and dad plant the
garden. It was tough then - I remember dad would plow the
rows with that old hand-held plow and we were made to go
along behind and plant the seed. We used to use a metal
contraption that you would put seed into and stick it down
into the soil and shoot the seed into the ground. I remember
sometimes dad would get a friend over with a horse and
plow to do the rows. Tilling the garden wasn't too bad for us
boys but boy did we hate it when we had to weed it. That was
the worst part about planting a garden - doing the hard work
of keeping the weeds out. But after it was all done, it was
nice to reap the benefits of fresh corn, potatoes, peas,
tomatoes, onions and other vegetables all during the winter
that mom would freeze for us.
In My Backyard - My mom had the unpleasant job of getting
meat on the table. Of course, like a lot of other families
during that era, we kept chickens in the backyard. Grandma
Heavner would come over every so often and her and mom
would do the necessary for chicken dinner. I know when I
mention this to my kids now it makes them sick. But mom
and grandma would go out in the backyard, grab a chicken
or two, and ring their necks. I remember watching them do
this - and it wasn't a pretty sight! But we had to have food
on the table and this was a cheap way to get it. We didn't
have roosters, just regular chickens. That's why most of the
time we would get our eggs from Mr and Mrs Hutchinson -
neighbors that lived down the street from us. They had the
chicken houses and screened in pens.
In My Backyard - We also had another way we got our food.
We raised hogs. We had a hogpen back across the little
swamp area behind the house - far enough away so the smell
would't get too close. You've heard the phrase "slopping the
hogs" - well, I did it. Many times. Those old hogs would just
love to lay around in the mud in those pens. We used to take
feed to them and mix it with water and they loved it. Of
course, we had to feed them good in order to get plenty of
sausage and bacon later. I never had to do it, but dad and
some of his buddies would go out when they were good and
fat and slaughter them. I don't think I would have the will to
do that today. But it had to be done. When they got the hog
dressed out, they would take the meat up to the Rockingham
Locker Plant for freezing. That way, we had fresh sausage
or bacon whenever we needed it.
In My Backyard - Picking blackberries. This was one of my
favorite desserts. We had blackberry bushes at the bottom of
our backyard and many times we would pick them clean.
You would have to be careful because there were thorns on
the bushes that would really hurt if they stuck you. But it
was worth it to get some homebade blackberry cobbler that
mom would make.
Plums. This was another fruit we enjoyed. The best plum
bushes were found behind the Jenkins house. Most of the
time we would just eat them right off the vine but also we
would get our moms to make jelly with them. Boy, that was
some good stuff!
Grapes. Another good fruit we would pick behind our
homes. But it seems we liked to make grape wine out of
those more than anything. We would put them in mason
jars, bury them in the ground in the woods, and go back a
few weeks later and have some great wine.
In My Backyard - I remember one year my dad decided to
buy us a pony. But we had to have somewhere to put him.
Dad and some of his friends fenced in the woods behind our
house with barbed wire. He also built a little barn for the
pony. I don't remember what he paid for it but he also
bought a buggy at the same time. The pony's name was
Trigger and he was a mean little cuss. Whenever we rode
him, he would try to scrape us off by brushing up against
anything he could find. Sometimes when we rode him he
would run as fast as he could and then stop - trying his best
to throw us off. But we loved riding him - especially when
we used the buggy. Our favorite place to take the buggy was
behind the Jenkins house. But once you got moving pretty
good in that buggy, Trigger would take a curve too fast and
turn it over and throw us out. And he kept going. It would
take a good while to chase him down. But the whole
neighborhood enjoyed that pony.
In My Backyard - When I was a kid, there used to be a an
empty lot full of pine trees between my house and the
Brigmans - I believe Charles Freeman's family lives there
now. I remember many times walking through that lot going
to see Mr and Mrs Brigman. Mr Brigman was a carpenter
and had two sons and two daughters, Jimmy and Walter,
and Glenne and Helen. He was always building something
and we loved to watch. One memory still stays with me.
Glenne married a guy named Roy Landry. They had a son
named Shoeford. Roy was a tough guy and was very
muscular. So, naturally he wanted his boy to follow in his
footsteps.  Little Shoeford had to be tough - and he was. I
remember quite a few times he would be playing on the front
porch with his dad and would fall off onto the ground - and
come up laughing. Nothing hurt that kid. I'm sure his dad
was happy with the way his son was a tough guy just like
him.
In My Backyard - We did some pretty stupid things when I
was a kid....as is written in other sections of My Memories.
Referring to the pine tree lot above, all the boys in the
neighborhood loved to meet there. And, everyone would
bring their BB guns. The Jenkins boys, the Hewitt boys, the
Comer boys, to name a few. One of our favorite pastimes
was playing cops and robbers. Everyone would put their big
coats on backwards so you would get more protection from
the front. That way when you got shot with a BB gun, it
wouldn't hurt as bad.
One particular incident I remember involved my friend
Murphy Comer. We had finished our round of cops and
robbers and everybody was setting around talking. I
assumed I had used all my BBs in my gun. I remember
Murphy was sitting on an old swing we had there and I
made a bet that my gun was empty. Well, to prove how sure I
was of it being empty, I pointed it right at Murphy's face
and pulled the trigger! Next thing I knew, blood was flowing
pretty fast from between his eyes where the BB had landed.
It scared us all to death! We rushed him back to his house
and his mom took him to the hospital. He and I were very
lucky the BB had not hit him in the eye. But that taught me
a lesson I would never forget. Never point a gun where you
don't want to shoot! My dad made sure I remembered that
lesson from then on - with a belt!
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