Occasionally, I travel from my home in Hope Mills to visit my dad. Sally, my practical minded wife, always tells me I should call Pop to let him know I am coming for a visit. I never do. I always have places to go and people I can see. Sometimes, no one but Sally knows I am in Rockingham. One would think that a eighty five year old man would always be at home. However, times do occur when Daddy is out riding in his new Ford pick-up that he purchased from me. When he is not at home, I climb back into my Ford pick-up and ride Richmond County to see the changes that have taken place since I was a kid fifty plus years ago.
Back in the fall of 2000, I made a trip to Rockingham to visit Daddy. Of course, I did not call before I left Hope Mills and of course, Daddy was not home. I used my key with the intent of slipping in and merely leaving a note of disappointment at missing him and a note of love from my brood.
Suddenly, alone in that house that had been my home thirty days short of twenty four years since arriving home from Hamlet Hospital in January, 1948, my mind recalled a mansion of memories as I walked through each room. Still present on the back door was the crystal quartz door knob that although had been twisted thousands of times since installation, still showed no signs of wear and tear. Hundreds of times Mama had opened that back door to throw Zeke a leftover biscuit. Naturally, she threw like a girl. Yet, rarely would that biscuit ever hit the ground. Zeke had only one short coming that kept him from starting for our neighborhood sandlot baseball team, the Foxport Raiders. Yes the Foxport Raiders of the late ' 50s and early ' 60s was the original Raiders team in Richmond County. Zeke had a weak arm. Getting the ball back to the infield would have been a problem for Zeke; catching a fly ball, no problem!
Flashback memories flooded my mind as I walked through my childhood home. In the den, I stopped to look at the large single-paned window that was next to the one and only television we had in the house. By the way, it was a huge 21-inch black and white TV. My, how times have changed; my home in Hope Mills is now equipped with one black and white and five color television sets. The window still had the replacement pane that Uncle Wes installed the day Ken pushed me through it. I remember it as if it were yesterday ...
It was a Saturday afternoon, twelve noon to be specific. On channel WSOC-TV was "Kilgo's Canteen." I was a thirteen-year-old who had just started to be infatuated with the opposite sex. Ken, on the other hand, was an eleven-year-old kid hypnotized by adventure. Our two outlooks on life came into conflict every Saturday at noon via the invention of television. For you see, a live broadcast of Dick Clark's Bandstand Southern Style occurred every Saturday at noon from the studios of WSOC-TV Channel 9 out of Charlotte fondly called "Kilgo's Canteen." Local celebrity, Jimmy Kilgo, would host groups of 20 to 25 high school students who experienced brief moments of fame. The kids filled the chairs of tables of four. When not on the dance floor shagging, twisting, or doing the funky chicken, they were being interviewed by Jimmy. They were being asked questions about their school, the latest fads in teen clothing, music, and any youth "crisis." Occasionally, a local band would appear as a headliner feature. This show kick-started a local group, The Catalinas, who later released the big beach hit, Summertime's Calling Me. I remember seeing a teen group from Rockingham High "starring" one Saturday as well as a group of our rivals, Hamlet High School, appearing another Saturday. Everyone in Richmond County watched both Saturdays because they had a Richmond County Journal front page notice on Friday. "Kilgo's Canteen" brought thirty minutes of fame to the local, small-town high school and its participants on a miniature scale much like nationally acclaimed "American Idol" did for Rockingham's Bucky Covington. "Kilgo's Canteen" was a must-see every Saturday for every teenager.
On the other hand, "Out of the clear blue western sky comes ... Sky King." Sky King was a modern day cowboy who along with his niece, Penny, pulled off amazing just-in-the-knick-of-time rescues or caught the bad guy just before he disappeared forever. Sky and Penny were able to perform these logic-defying miracles in "Songbird," Sky's Cessna 310 airplane. From 1951 to 1962, seventy-two episodes of Sky King were filmed. Every Saturday, Gary, Ken and I stayed glued in front of our 21-inch black and white TV and watched the thirty minute heroics of Sky King. I will never forget the Saturday I outgrew "The Adventures of Sky King."
"I'm watching 'Kilgo's Canteen,'" I told my little brothers, Gary and Ken, as I strolled out of the kitchen with my freshly made peanut butter and jelly sandwich in hand. I stepped up to the television and turned the channel knob (the remote control had not yet been invented) to channel 9 just as channel 3 broadcasted "out of the clear blue western sky comes ..."
"Turn back to Sky King!" demanded Ken.
"Shut up! I want to find out what high school will be on today. I'm watching Jimmy Kilgo!"
"You can call Jack Cooper (RHS ' 66). He'll tell you what school is on Kilgo's," Ken snapped back as he twisted the channel knob to channel 3. "We're gonna watch Sky King!"
The McDonald brother pecking order was being challenged. I decided it was time to remind Ken that I, not he, was the BIG BROTHER. After turning the knob back and forth several times, I finally issued a mandate to little Ken. "Now you touch that dial one more time and I'll slap you. I'm watching 'Kilgo's Canteen,'" I announced as I stood in front of that black and white TV with my back to that large single-paned window. "Now, just switch it one more time," I challenged Ken as I stared into his eyes. I knew we were about to fight. Ken never backed down from a fight.
"Switch this!" Ken yelled as he pushed me hard with both hands squarely in my chest. I stumbled backward with nothing to grab since my right hand was already full of peanut butter and jelly sandwich and I was not going to let my sandwich go. Ken continued to push like a mad Russian as I crashed through the window and Ken's momentum pushed the screen wire out of its brackets with broken glass flying everywhere. The scene was almost like an instant replay from Gunsmoke, when about once per month Marshall Matt Dillon threw some outlaw through the front window of the Long Branch Saloon.
Miraculously, I ended up flat on my back on the ground in the backyard with not the first scratch or cut on me still holding that peanut butter and jelly sandwich in my right hand. Who should be the first to comfort me but Zeke. He brought me back to the real world by licking the stunned look off my face. Once again, Zeke expressed the love and care between a boy and his dog that cannot be duplicated by any other animal. Sensing I was okay, but apparently not hungry anymore, Zeke snatched my sandwich from my hand and ran.
Discovering that the only injury her oldest son had was his pride, Mama went into the recovery mode. Her first step was to cut off the TV. Mama then made a phone call to Wes, one of her brothers. Uncle Wes showed up with a plan to replace the broken pane. With measurements in hand and a generous billfold in his back pocket, Uncle Wes made a quick trip to town. In less than two hours, the shattered window was as good as new. Mama said Daddy did not need to know about the accident right away as long as Gary, Ken, and I could share the television. We knew that the consequences of our actions would be extremely painful if Daddy found out. As a result, Sky King and Jimmy Kilgo were never topics of debate at our house again.
Finally, I made my way into the small bedroom that Gary, Ken, and I shared as kids. I always shared a bed with Gary, and Ken slept alone. No one could sleep with Ken; he constantly moved his legs during the night. Daddy always said Ken rode his bicycle all night long. I could write a book of memories drawn from that one small room alone. As I stood there in the room where we McDonald brothers shared so many good times, my mind carried me back to the games we played and the lessons of life learned through a mockingbird, all enclosed in the room we shared thirty-five plus years ago.
I still remember the hole in the wall where I threw Ken into the sheetrock head first. Our beds stood parallel to one another, each flush against the opposite walls with a six foot wide center aisle between the two. As soon as the leaves changed from summer green to fall brown and Game 7 of the World Series was played, this six foot aisle turned into Washington's RFK Stadium. The Redskins-Cowboy classics were replayed in our bedroom. Our pigskin (football) was rolled out from under our bed and replaced by our ball gloves and Louisville Slugger wooden baseball bat.
Baseball may have been America's favorite pastime but in Richmond County, football was king and the Rockingham Rockets sat on the throne. Ellerbe High always had strong eight-man football teams. Yes, I did say eight as in eight starters, not eleven. With graduating classes of thirty, the body count would not support a full team. Rohanen High competed every year for their Class 2A conference title. On the other hand, Hamlet High and all other surrounding Class 3A high school teams competed for second place in the Southeastern Conference. The Rockingham Rockets had more loft goals than a conference championship. Hamlet High, Dunn High, Laurinburg High, Lumberton High, Sanford High, Clinton High, Raeford High, and Wadesboro High were mere stepping stones for the perennial Southeastern Champion Rockets in their quest for the State 3A Football Championship. Coach Bill Eustler brought a few such trophies home for the showcase in Kate Finley Auditorium. Most of the other state champs in that era had to beat the Rockets in the playoff system. All contenders came down Highway 1 or Highway 74 for a two to three hour Friday night layover at Rockingham Ballpark on their drive to the title. More than one visiting team returned home brokenhearted.
Championship football was being played in Richmond County long before the Richmond Raiders came into existence. As great as the undefeated ' 88 -' 90 Raiders of the Mike Thomas (RSHS ' 90) era with his Michael Vick quarterback moves and his All-Universe leading punting average were, along with Dallas Cowboy linebacker Oscar Sturgis (RSHS '90), the Raiders would still have to play catch-up football against High School All-American Ron Tuthill (RHS ' 61) and his Rockets if the two had ever met. With track star and Roberdel native Ray Jones (RHS ' 61) at half-back, Tuthill redefined the option play. Many times, a defensive end rolled over with Ronnie in his arms only to see the south side of Ray as he tiptoed into the north end zone. On the very next series of Rocket offensive plays, the same defensive end would roll over with Ray in his clutches as Ron put six more on the scoreboard for the Rockets. Finally, just to keep the defense honest, Tuthill would deliver a perfect TD spiral to a multitude of receivers.
Ron went on to graduate Rockingham High with a full football scholarship to the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. Ronnie was the starting quarterback for the ' 61 freshman Tar Heels only to lose the starting ' 62 varsity Tar Heel job to Charlotte Myers Park High passing star Gary Black. Gary had lost the job to Ron as a freshman. The popular consensus in Rockingham at that time in history was Ron's talents could not compete against the strong Charlotte Tar Heel Alumni influence for the starting varsity quarterback slot. Ronnie went on to score touchdowns for the Heels as a wide receiver. He later went on to win a starting job as a defensive back. In 1964, the Tar Heel teammates and coaches elected Ron and future all-pro Chris Hanburger as Co-Captains on a team quarterbacked by Senior Gary Black. The leadership abilities developed as a Rocket served Ron well in college. By the way, Ray carried his blazing speed to Chapel Hill in the fall of ' 61 as a scholarship Tar Heel sprinter. Both Ron and Ray became legends. By merely mentioning either name to any pre-1970 Rockingham High graduate, you will hear the other's name. In the same breath, an instant replay of a fall Friday night forty plus years ago will be rerun in the minds and conversations of the two participants. May God bless the Tuthill-Jones memories and may God bless America! Go Rockets!!!
It was with the same above mentioned emotions and inspirations that every kid grew up in Rockingham with the ambition to play for Coach Bill Eustler. Even when it was too wet or too cold to go outside or even when it was too dark, Gary, Ken, and I played football. The hundred yard football field became that six foot aisle between our beds. The end zones became our beds. Our rules were simple. One brother was offense and the other two played defense. As long as the offense scored, the offense kept the ball. The game was over only after all three of us had our turn on offense. Hence, a typical score may have read 21-14-0. Poor Gary never scored. What other outcome could one expect? After all, Ken and I were three and five years older. Yet, such fun football, probably later on, made Gary the toughest brother. I never will forget the night that our favorite bedroom football game pulled Daddy up out of his easy chair to throw a flag for unsportsman-like conduct and ended our game. I still recall the night as though it was yesterday ...
"Quit crying, get up off your back, and get ready. It's still my ball! The score is Rockets 42, Red Rams (Hamlet) 0," Ken announced. "You can't quit, Cry Baby!"
"Get up, Gary," I encouraged my little brother. "You and I are gonna show Ken how to play football. You ain't nothing but a sissy," I teased Ken.
"You asked for it," Ken answered. "I'm gonna run over both of you!" exclaimed a charging Ken. With a Settle Dockery (RHS ' 64) fourth and goal determination and both arms wrapped around the football, Ken lowered his head and bulled his way toward Gary and the opposite bed. (Settle was honorable mention High School All-American as well as All-State fullback whose skills and intelligence put him in the starting backfield and the School of Design at N.C. State}. Just as Ken reached Gary, I pushed Gary out of the way, grabbed Ken by the back of the neck with one hand and the seat of his pants with the other. I then slung him as hard as I could toward the end zone bed much to his and Gary's surprise. Ken hit his bed with the accelerated speed of a 1955 Nash Rambler hydroplaning in a pouring rain. Only the wall on the opposite side of the room slowed Ken down as I stuck both arms straight up in the air and yelled "Touchdown!" I turned back to look at Ken and had to do a double-take. Hard-headed Ken had punched a hole in the wall! He pulled his head out of the wall and came back across the bed even quicker than his initial trip. The fight was on! It was on long enough for Daddy to leave his Lazyboy and walk to our bedroom. We both got a spanking. I am not sure if it was for fighting or punching the hole in the wall. Nevertheless, the end result was the same. That same hole is still there today. A closet now stands where Ken's bed stood. On the backside of that closet is a size 7 3/8 hole.
I still remember my brothers and I standing on the end of the bed peeping through the Venetian blinds and looking directly in the nest of a mockingbird. I can still see the four or five small, blue eggs. I can still see Mama Mockingbird sitting on the nest, even in the pouring rain. Likewise, I can still see the four or five open mouths stretching for the worm in Mama Mockingbird's beak. I can still see four or five small birds standing on wobbly legs looking over the edge of their secure home. Finally, I still remember looking into the nest that contained only fragments of egg shells and wondering how many of the little birds survived without their mother. I was left to wonder until the following spring, when the same mockingbird returned and laid her first egg in the same nest. My brothers and I saw God's creation recycle through the same bedroom window for six or seven consecutive summers. That bedroom had hundreds of memories that were buried deep within my memory bank, such as the head hole in the sheetrock and Mama Mockingbird as seen through my bedroom window.
As I sat on the edge of my childhood bed, I glanced at the dresser where Gary, Ken, and I shared all the treasures that can only be found in a little boy's pockets. Just what would I find if I dare open these small drawers? What I found that day was more valuable to me than any pirate booty buried anywhere on any ocean floor. For what I found that day in the year 2000 was a color snapshot of our Zeke, King Of the Road. This picture had laid dormant in that small desk drawer for thirty to thirty-five years. It was taken during the time period when black and white film still outsold color film (color film was so expensive). I had then and still have now no idea of the identity of the photographer. To the best of my knowledge, this small color photo was the only picture ever taken of our best friend. I held a true rare treasure in my hand.
A glance at my watch brought me back to Y2K as my mind returned from a four decade trip where I had spent the last hour home alone in that small seven room house I grew up in. I scratched Daddy a note and slipped the picture of Zeke into my shirt pocket as I scrambled to get out the door and back to Hope Mills. If I hurried, I had time to go around the circle of my old high school, Rockingham High. I had a nostalgic urge to walk up and down the front steps of 'ole RHS. I had not done that since May, 1966. I needed to hurry!
While driving home, I must have pulled that snapshot of Zeke out of my pocket a dozen times. Each glance brought a smile to my face and carried me back in time to the ' 60s. I reached over and cut my radio off for my memories of Zeke made me deaf to my favorite beach music CD. The memories of Zeke came alive as I drove home alone in my truck. I suddenly realized that as long as God grants me memory I can always travel back in time to the frolicking fun time of my childhood days whenever I look at that photo of that old dog that I loved so much. I simply basked in the warm, nostalgic memories of my best friend of so long ago. I knew these same fuzzy feelings were shared my brothers and Daddy whenever the name Zeke came up. Our conversations over the year confirmed that conclusion. A mind is a terrible thing to loose, especially a memory. How could I preserve these precious childhood memories? Surely, if man could preserve something as basic as grape jelly, then I could preserve a precious heirloom memory, but how?
When I arrived home that night, I shared my discovery with my wife Sally. Zeke was an old dog slowed by arthritis and old age when Sally first met Zeke. Yet, even she had plenty of fond memories to share about Zeke. Sally reminded me of the first time I carried her home to meet Mama (Daddy too, but Mama's initial stamp of approval was of utmost importance to me). The time frame was May, 1970. I was less than thirty days away from walking across the stage in Raleigh with a diploma in hand and a B.S. degree in Textile Technology. Furthermore, I was also on the doorsteps of my first fulltime job in the adult world. The textile giant J.P. Stevens had a job waiting for me in my hometown where I could start out making more money than ninety percent of the employees who had worked their entire lives in the Stevens mill. All the above factors and circumstances were important events in my life, but none held a candle to introducing my future bride to Mama and family. Of course Sally was only a girlfriend, or so I thought. She stirred emotions and feelings in me I had never felt before. "Zing went the strings of my heart!" Yet, it was crucial that the first woman that I ever loved with all my heart approve my heartthrob. Without Mama's approval, Sally could have become just another fling. No reason could Mama not like her, Sally was perfect. Nevertheless, whenever I pulled into the front yard of my home, I was as nervous as a long-tailed cat in a rocking chair factory.
I still remember when Sally stepped out of my brand new 1970 limelight green Plymouth Duster 340. In 1970, Sally could have been a cover girl for any teen fashion magazine. In typical "flower child" hairstyling of the day, Sally had long dark brown almost black hair that dropped down past her waist. Her dark hair complemented her natural golden tanned complexion. Furthermore, her tan was accented by the clothing fashion of the day. My Sally was wearing a miniskirt that was so short that "mini" did not do justice to the description. Out of the bottom of that miniskirt were the most smooth, most golden, most shapely, most alluring female legs I had ever seen in my 22 years of living. On the end of those long legs were small dainty feet with bright red toenails nestled into leather sandals that were highlighted by a big yellow sunflower. I was falling in love and did not even realize it, I just knew my brothers and Daddy would be just as hypnotized as I was by this new girl of mine with supermodel characteristics. Mama had to like her. Sally had a couple of aces in the hole to use in case Mama tried to judge my book by its cover. The first ace was a double-dimpled smile with perfect bleach white teeth. This blue-eyed babe melted my heart with her smile. Yet, the strongest ace my dream girl held was her roots. Sally was the farmer's daughter! Her stunning tanned complexion was earned in the tobacco fields of Eastern North Carolina. How could Mama not like her? I eagerly shut the passenger door of my Duster 340 and grabbed my sweetheart by the hand as Sally stepped onto Richmond County soil for the first time. It was time to meet Mama!
As we approached the front porch step of my childhood home, who should appear from the shrubbery but 'ole Zeke. Sally froze in her steps! Looking as ferocious and intimidating as he ever did in his prime, the old bulldog cautiously advanced toward Sally. Zeke slowly circled Sally, never taking his eyes off of her. He slipped up to her back side, sniffed her, wagged his tail and returned to rest behind the shrubbery. Zeke and I thought alike; I was a love sick puppy. Amazingly, the picture of Zeke resurrected a courtship memory. Occasionally, we still giggle over that memory and for some reason she sometimes tries to compare me to my best friend by commanding me to "sit" or worse yet "stay" if you catch my drift.
For the next week after I returned home from visiting Daddy, I pulled the photograph of Zeke out of my dresser drawer each night when I came home from work. Staring at that snapshot for more than twenty seconds almost made Zeke come alive in my hands. It was as though his eyes were twinkling, his ears were perched, and he was ready to defend. The picture captured that analyzing stare that he always displayed when he locked in on another animal or strange visitor. I caught myself several times whispering, "Sic 'em, Zeke! Get 'em, Boy!" When Zeke did not charge off the picture, I brought myself back to the real world. A thousand more snapshots could have been taken and probably never would have captured that same pose. No one else in the world with the exception of my wife Sally even knew the snapshot of Zeke existed. In fact, as previously mentioned, to the best of my knowledge, it was the only picture of our best friend. The fact that it was in living color made the picture even more precious. I suppose the sharp color was enhanced by being buried in the bottom of that dresser drawer for years, hidden from any artificial light or natural sunlight. I suddenly felt guilty as if I had stolen the picture of my dog from my dresser in my bedroom. Yet, like an archeologist who discovers a bit of lost history, I was excited to share my discovery with my family. Should I call? Should I write? Should I go visit? The sixty four thousand dollar question became "How should I share?".
While reading the Fayetteville Observer, I ran across an advertisement for Lester's Studio. The ad highlighted a "before" and an "after" of a tattered by age and wear photo with a like-new restoration finish. Yes, the light came on! On my day off, I was standing at the front door as Mr. Lester unlocked his shop. I explained how meaningful and how old the small picture was. If he somehow lost it among the thousands in his office, the only snapshot of Zeke would fade to a memory. Mr. Lester reassured me the photo was in good hands and would be returned in a couple of weeks along with four 5 X 7 enhanced reproductions. Somehow, I sensed Mr. Lester shared that same love with his dog that we McDonalds shared with Zeke. He told me not to worry.
One week later, I was Mr. Lester's first customer again as he opened his shop. He remembered me and said, "I think you will be pleased with the picture of your dog." "Pleased" was an understatement; I was ecstatic! Later, after walking through several department stores, I finally found four brown/black frames trimmed in gold. The brown/black frame made Zeke's brindle coat glow. The trim could have been no other color than gold. After all, gold is the only color fit for a king, Zeke - King Of the Road. I had the perfect Christmas gifts for Daddy and my brothers. Christmas could not arrive quickly enough. I was actually wishing my life away; I could not wait to call my family.
My wife Sally is recognized by her friends and family as the residential poet. Whether it be a fellow employee retirement farewell, a wedding party, an anniversary, a birthday party, or any other special occasion, everyone looks to Sally for an event-capturing poem. She captured this special moment in the following excerpt of her poem entitled "Christmas Of 2000" written for my three girls:
Then it was gift exchanging time ...What a ball! Fun time was had by one and all. On this occasion Daddy really could not act meek, 'Cause he gave each a copied and framed picture of ole Zeke. Sharing dog tales the McDonald men had a ball ... Recalling stories of Zeke who seemed ten feet tall.
Just as I had anticipated, we McDonald men traveled back in time to the days when we were barefooted boys and Daddy had more hair. In my living room, we had instant playback of the days of yesteryear. Our enthusiasm was fueled by what we held in our hands. Zeke may have indeed grown to be ten feet tall in my home as the whispers of the past grew into shouts of adoration as we swapped tales. The photo reflected the essence of Zeke. Protection, loyalty, love, trustworthiness, and unwavering devotion oozed from that picture, even more so now. That picture now sets on a shelf in my den and serves as a constant remainder of the fun times my brothers and I had growing up in Rockingham.
Buzz Lightyear of Star Command is a fictional character appearing in Disney's Toy Story who is a Space Ranger. This space action figure with all the doo-dad weapons and gung-ho attitude sees no situation too large or too desperate for him to undertake. In fact, Buzz recognizes his limits as "infinity and beyond." In other words, his reputation and heroics have no boundaries. He merely sees himself as a warrior against the evil, toy-destroying villains of the world who will never die nor be defeated.
Likewise, Zeke will always live forever. He was a superhero and best friend to the Cecil McDonald family. Even though Dr. Ralph Gandy permanently put Zeke to sleep through injection years ago, Zeke continues to be just as alive as the day Daddy brought him home from Mr. Reece's. Yet, when Daddy, Gary, Ken, and I all have left this Earth, so will the stories of Zeke, King Of the Road. However, thanks to Joel Bailey's (RHS ' 66) website, rockinghamremembered.com, Zeke will live forever in the heroic adventures I have posted.
In conclusion, Zeke was "our best friend, our partner, our defender, our dog. We were his life, his love, his leaders. He was ours, faithful and true, to the last beat of his heart ..." Through rockinghamremembered.com, I have made sure his legend will reach the outer limits of "infinity and beyond," traveling forever in word and picture. After all, I "owe it to him to be worthy of such devotion." Zeke - King Of the Road: a precious childhood memory of growing up in Rockingham, North Carolina - a small textile town in the South in the ' 50s & ' 60s.
The End
Chapter 12 Infinity and Beyond written by Bob McDonald
Zeke - Our Best Friend, Our Partner, Our Defender, Our Dog ... Faithful and True, To the Last Beat Of His Heart.
I wanted to insert a little side note on the 12 chapters about Zeke. Bob has done such a great job of capturing his memories of his childhood friend and companion, Zeke. I only wish I could capture the memories of the past as well as he has. I truly appreciate Bob sending these to me and letting me publish them for all to read. Compiling these memories into great reading material is a time consuming effort that Bob has accomplished and hopefully they will inspire more people that grew up in Richmond County to reach way back in their memories and share them with everyone through this website. This is the last chapter on Zeke and I am sure Bob will be sending me more true stories to publish as time permits. I urge you to look at Bob McDonald's Page of Memories, where you can really get a feel for the way it was growing up in Rockingham, North Carolina - a small textile town in the South in the ' 50s & ' 60s. Joel Bailey.