I was sitting in a booth at Bojangles in Hope Mills on 10/11/06 around 9am eating a biscuit when a young lady stops at my table. "Glad to see that you are reading my paper. My name is Tina Ray and I write forThe Sandspur. Are you a resident of Hope Mills?"
"Yes I am and have been for over thirty years," I answered.
"Every week our paper interviews a citizen for a column called five questions. Do you mind if I interview you?" questioned Tina. Our Five Questions interview turned into Neighbors In the Limelight. The ink went from a 5x8 note card into a 3/8 page column. I could not answer in only five questions. That characteristic is the just the way we McDonalds are.
"Of course not," I replied. "I feel that it would be my duty and responsibility to do so. It is the least I can do as a good citizen," I proudly answered. "Go get yourself a biscuit and a cup of coffee, girl, have a seat and let's sit down and talk."
When I first moved to Hope Mills in 1975, the town was even smaller than Rockingham in the ' 50s & ' 60s. Yet, it was very similar in background to my hometown. Hope Mills was a small textile town in the South in the ' 50s & ' 60s. Just like Rockingham, we have a very active and successful youth recreation program. During the summer, if your child, boy or girl, and gender does not matter, does not sign up in Hope Mills for youth baseball or softball, then after 6pm, he or she will be playing on the streets in your neighborhood alone. Everyone else will be at the ballpark. Our leagues are hooked up with the Dixie Youth Organization. On opening day of our summer program, an 82nd paratrooper drops onto the mound and walks the game ball to the President of The Hope Mills Youth Association for the first pitch ceremony of every season. Approximately 60 teams with 850 plus kids from the ages of 4 to 12, all in uniform, watch and cheer the descent. Just typing and visualizing this event sends chills all over my body as I reflect. The game of baseball (softball) truly is America's favorite pastime. "Play Ball!" and pass me a hot dog! By the way, Hope Mills is the reigning Dixie Youth Majors (11-12 years-old) World Series Champion.
Just like Rockingham, Hope Mills loves high school football! Hope Mills has grown so quickly that we now have three high schools within a five mile radius of my home. Gray's Creek Bears (3A), Jack Britt Buccaneers (4A), and South View Tigers (4A) all have very good football teams year in and year out. I live in the South View School District. Past South View football teams have advanced to the third round of the state playoffs six years in a row. Our band is even better. The Marching Tigers Boosters are parents of band members and, in some cases, parents who have hung around long after their kids have graduated. Once a Marching Tiger Booster, Always a Marching Tiger Booster! Sally, my wife, is chairman of the band booster membership committee. Feel free to drop a check to her if you want to become a long distant booster. Remember, kids are not a requirement. Our band is so large that our equipment is transported to games and to band competitions every week in a tractor-trailer 18-wheeler. Every time Mr. Bolder, South View Band Director, and The Marching Tigers strut onto the football field or march in the Christmas Parade, I cannot help but have flashbacks of Mr. Ed Jones and The Marching Rockets. Coincidently, just like the Rockets, the Tigers wear black and orange.
Hope Mills is one of the fastest growing areas of Cumberland County. The population of Hope Mills in 2005 was 12529 and has grown at the population rate of 10.32%. Eckerd's, Walgreen, CVS, Roses, Treasure Mart, Radio Shack, Taco Bell, Burger King, Smithfield's, Pizza Hut, Wal-Mart, and Bojangles are but a few of the national chains that have arrived in Hope Mills since I moved to Hope Mills. Yet, as fast and as large as Hope Mills is growing, it still has that warm, small town feeling. I know the police chief by name, the pharmacist by name, and town council members by name. I still buy from the local hardware store and not Wal-Mart. I even stop in at The Village Style Shop sometimes to gather the consensus opinion of the common citizen of Hope Mills on a public issue or concern. If I need a haircut, I will get one. If I do not need one, I will leave without a haircut. Yet regardless of my reasoning for entering the shop, I always leave with an opinion. Hope Mills is just like the small-town Rockingham I remember. Mr. Brown and Lewis Smith (RHS ' 64) at the Rockingham Barber Shop, next to the City Fire station, always had plenty of opinions and never charged you for even one. Just like Floyd of Mayberry Barbershop, small town barbers and their patrons have the solutions to all of the world's problems found in Hope Mills, Rockingham, Mayberry or the uttermost parts of the world.
Ms. Ray and I bonded as we talked about the values of growing up in a small textile town in the South. She grew up in St. Pauls,North Carolina in Robeson County. Friday nights in St. Pauls are no different than Friday nights in Hope Mills and Rockingham. Friday nights are made for high-school football with half-time band performances. Sundays in St. Pauls are no different than Sundays in Hope Mills and Rockingham. Sundays are made for going to church, praying for your brother's needs, and worshipping God. Mondays are no different in St. Pauls than in Hope Mills or Rockingham. Mondays are made for crawling out of the bed and beating that 8 o'clock bell and facing that bad -breathe boss man and trying to survive until the Friday 5 o'clock whistle blows. Such patterns were, and still are, the lifestyle of living in a small textile town in the South. Ms. Ray subtitled the article Still Remembers His Roots. Just call me a redneck Kunta Kinte. You can take the boy out of Rockingham but you can't take Rockingham out of the boy. Read and enjoy the following copy of the "on-the street interview" and you will see how deep my roots run. Ms. Ray hit the nail on the head with her summary on me. Rockingham is a childhood away. That childhood was full of precious memories of growing up in Rockingham, North Carolina - a small textile town in the South in the ' 50s & ' 60s.
NEIGHBORS IN THE LIMELIGHT
McDonald changes with the times
By Tina Ray The Sandspur
STILL REMEMBERS HIS ROOTS
Bob McDonald
STILL REMEMBERS HIS ROOTS "I have hometown feelings when I go to a South View football game."
That's how Bob McDonald feels about supporting the Tigers. His daughter, Meredith, gave up softball to be a Marching Tiger, he said. McDonald has been so impressed with the discipline the band displays that he has never been bothered by the long hours of practice.
He grew up in the great NASCAR haven of Rockingham and was sad to see the sport leave his hometown.
"It's a real shame that NASCAR is going away from its roots, and to be honest, Rockingham never had a chance with the dates that they had. Who wants to go to a race when it's football weather?" McDonald said.
A graduate of N.C. State in Raleigh, McDonald majored in textile engineering and minored in economics. That major took him all over North Carolina, but the fact that so few textiles are American-made forced him to change careers more than a decade ago. For the past 10 years, he has been a team leader at Crown Ford in Fayetteville, teaching colleagues the intricacies of the sales business.
The textile industry sent McDonald to Winston-Salem and Monroe. He also has worked in Wadesboro. In 1975, he moved from Wadesboro to Fayetteville. As if his NASCAR roots do not overlap his current job, McDonald only roots for Ford drivers.
"What's a Toyota?" he asks about the automaker's introduction into NASCAR.
When not working, he enjoys Wolfpack basketball. McDonald's favorite pastime is writing, and lately he has become known for nostalgic pieces about growing up in Rockingham.
Married almost 35 years to his wife, Sally, and the father of three daughters, Natalie, Meredith and Robin, McDonald has an affable sense of humor.
"When the commode lid is left up in my house, I have no one to blame," he said.
"The oldest of three brothers," McDonald said, "It seems like three has been the magic number in my life."
Rockingham is a childhood away. Hope Mills is where McDonald plans on spending his retirement.
Family: Wife, Sally; three daughters, Natalie, Meredith and Robin
In his free time: Writing, watching NASCAR and N.C. State basketball
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